A Virgo woman tends to be rather shy and difficult to approach even if she likes you. This can make it hard to know whether you have the green light to go ahead or whether you should just leave her alone. It can also be difficult to tell whether she is interested you romantically or whether she considers you a friend. Don’t worry, though. We are here to help. Read on to learn the signs that a Virgo woman is not interested in you.
Signs a Virgo woman is not interested in you at all
If you are thinking of approaching a Virgo woman, look for these signs that she has no interest in you at all. If she shows these signs, it is best to back off and leave her alone
1. She does not appear to notice you
A Virgo woman has a keen eye for detail. She pays attention to everything around her, even things that most other people will miss. If she is interested in you, you will see her cast glances your way every now and then, especially when she thinks that you are not looking. If you never see her looking your way, then it is a good sign that she is not interested in you.
If you are not sure, you could try to strike up a conversation. Because of her keen powers of observation, if she is interested in you, she will already know many things about you. If it seems like she has not noticed you, then you can be almost certain that a Virgo woman is not interested in you.
2. She will not talk to you
A Virgo woman may be shy, but she can also be quite talkative. It is rare for her to initiate a conversation, but when someone else does, she will generally have something to say. A Virgo woman has a well-known reputation as a perfectionist, but one of her lesser-known characteristics is a sharp intelligence.
She is also curious about a variety of topics and in most cases, she enjoys listening to what others have to say. So, if she has any interest in you at all, when you try to strike up a conversation with her, she will generally join in. If she does not, you can safely bet that she is not interested in you.
3. She will seem visibly annoyed whenever you are around
While a Virgo woman is not obsessively polite, she does try to have good manners. It is rare for her to be overtly rude. Still, she does not hide her feelings very well, and if she is not interested in you, she will show clear signs of being annoyed.
The perfectionistic nature of a Virgo woman can make her seem critical most of the time, but when she is interested in someone, she will seem helpful rather than judgmental. She will also go out of her way to make her comments useful and constructive.
If a Virgo woman is not interested in you, she will be curt and to the point. It will be clear that she is trying to keep her contact with you as brief as she possibly can.
4. She will be too busy to spend time with you
A Virgo woman generally has many responsibilities. She works hard and likes to be of service to others. On the other hand, she will make time to be with people if she is truly interested in them. She takes her relationships seriously and will be diligent about maintaining them.
If she is not interested in you, she will not even try to make time to be with you. Even if she is interested, she may still have difficulty finding time to be with you, and you may have to settle for lunch meetings and the like. If she is not interested, she will not meet with you at all.
5. She will rebuff you
Even though a Virgo woman is not intentionally rude, she also does not beat around the bush. She is direct, and she does not play hard to get. If she is not interested in you, she will usually tell you directly.
If a Virgo woman rebuffs you, do not continue to pursue her. She knows her mind, and she is not going to be won over by you. Indeed, the more you try to press her, the more annoyed she will become. She is very selective in who she chooses to spend her limited time with, and she will not waste her time or yours by leading you on.
Signs a Virgo Woman is Not Interested in You Romantically
A Virgo woman may like you and want to spend time with you. On the other hand, this does not mean that her interest in you is romantic. She may like you as a friend. For a Virgo woman, friendship is important, and it is very possible that you could get extremely close to her in that capacity.
Read on for the signs that a Virgo woman considers you a friend and is not interested in you romantically
1. She will share her emotions with you
A Virgo woman can have very intense friendships. She does not have many friends, but she is very close with all of them. Indeed, she takes friendships more seriously than most people take marriages. She will tell her friends intimate details about her life and will listen to the intimate details of theirs.
Strangely enough, though, when she starts to think of someone as a romantic partner, she can become a bit more reserved. For her love is a serious business, and she will want to make sure that the material aspects of your potential life together are in order. This may make her seem colder and more aloof with a potential partner than she is with her friends.
2. She will be direct about her feelings towards you
Just as a Virgo woman will tell you outright if she is not interested in you all, she will also let you know if her feelings towards you are not romantic. A Virgo woman is very honest, particularly with her friends. If you start to show any signs that you want more from her that she is willing to give, she will tell you directly.
Her feelings about you can change over time. A Virgo woman often takes a very long time to form romantic relationships, and many of them do start as friendships.
That being said, it does no good to push the issue if she tells you that she is not interested. If she does change her mind about you, it could take a long time. For this reason, you must decide whether you are happy to remain friends with her. Don’t do so with the hope or expectation that things will change in the foreseeable future.
3. She will remain critical of you
A Virgo woman has a well-deserved reputation as a perfectionist. In her quest for perfection, she can be quite critical of her friends and those around her. She is just as hard on herself, but that is not necessarily comforting for you.
She does not intend any harm, and she does try to be constructive in what she says. Still, a Virgo woman notices everything, and small faults and flaws really bother her.
Yet, when a Virgo woman falls in love, she tends to put the person she is in love with on a pedestal. She stops noticing their flaws and instead sees only their good qualities.
So, if after you have been seeing her for a while, and she continues to notice and criticize your faults and imperfections, this is a pretty good sign that she is not interested in you romantically.
4. She does not discuss your future together
In addition to being a perfectionist and having a keen eye for detail, a Virgo woman is extremely practical. If she is interested in someone romantically, she will start to think about her future with them. She will start to plan in her mind the life that she will have. For her, these plans will involve material considerations such as living arrangements and finances.
A Virgo woman will not just quietly think these things through in her mind. Instead, she will want to discuss them with her potential partner. She also will not wait for the other person to initiate the conversation. She will bring up the topic herself.
So, if she does not start conversations with you about your future together, you can be pretty sure that a Virgo woman is not interested in you romantically.
5. She will not want physical affection
For a Virgo woman, the line between friendship and romance is clean and clear-cut. There is no such thing as “friends with benefits” with a Virgo woman. She tends to take things slow when it comes to physical intimacy, so it is not a bad sign if she will avoid sex until the relationship has progressed quite far.
It is a bad sign, however, if she does want to kiss you or hold hands after you have been seeing her for some time. This generally means that she is not interested in you romantically.