A Gemini man can be a lot of fun to be around. He is social, friendly, entertaining, and has a lot of interesting things to say. He is also interested in you, what you do for a living, your hobbies, your background, and anything you have to tell him. Well, at least he is for several minutes. After that, he will move on to the next person. Unless, of course, he is seriously attracted to you.
Read on to learn twelve signs that a Gemini man is seriously attracted to you.
1. He will keep talking to you
A Gemini man is famous for a short attention span. He likes to learn a little bit about a lot of different things. This gives him a reputation as a flirt, but most of the time that he seems like he is flirting, he is just gathering bits of information about peoples’ lives. He collects trivia like a little girl would collect seashells at the beach.
So, he tends to look like he is attracted to almost everyone at first. Yet, as discussed in the introduction, he is quick to move on to the next person, who he will also give his undivided attention to.
On the other hand, if he is seriously attracted to you, he will stay and have a longer conversation. He may even ignore other people to talk to you.
2. He will maintain eye contact
As a part of his short attention span, a Gemini man has a great deal of trouble maintaining eye contact with people. His eyes tend to dart around from object to object, and he is easily distracted by something new and interesting that comes along.
On the other hand, if he is seriously attracted to you, he will be able to focus on you and to maintain eye contact with you.
Now, he will not have the type of deep eye contact that some signs such as Scorpio do, but it will be noticeable.
3. He will ask you out and remember to show up
Now, a Gemini man is quick to say that he wants to get together with someone that he meets. He may even ask for a phone number or set a date. That does not mean that he will actually follow through.
Indeed, a Gemini man is notorious for not following through with such things. It is not that he intends to show anyone up or hurt anyone. It is just in most cases, something else came up. A Gemini man lives in the moment and rarely plans ahead. This means that he may not even think about who he met or what was discussed the night before.
For this reason, just because a Gemini man does not call back or show up for a date, does not mean that he is not interested. However, if he does call back or remember to show up, it is a clear sign that he is seriously attracted to you.
4. He will keep showing up
Just as a Gemini man may make a date with you and then forget to show up, he may have a lovely time with you, set up a second date, and forget to show up then. Gemini has many wonderful traits, but reliability is not one of them.
For this reason, one of the most telling signs that a Gemini man is seriously attracted to you is if he continues to show up for date after date.
He will also call you in between dates and make an effort to be with you as much as he can.
5. You will be able to hold his attention
Modern technology and social media were made for Gemini. It allows for quick and light communications with many different people. It also creates many distractions. Gemini men tend to check their cell phones and social media accounts often, even when they are with other people.
Yet, if a Gemini man is seriously attracted to you, he will put down his cell phone or his tablet and talk to you and you alone. He will not try to engage other people in conversation, and he will focus all of his attention on you.
6. He will put on the charm
A Gemini man always has a certain charm about him, but his usual charm is of a rather boyish variety. He is enthusiastic and interested in many different things, which makes him fun to be around.
Yet, if he is seriously interested in you, he can turn up the charm a hundred-fold. He will make sure that he looks his best, and he will take you on a date to remember.
A Gemini man also has a fondness and a facility for words. When he is seriously attracted to you, he will know all the right things to say to make you special and tingle inside.
7. He will write songs or poetry for you
Gemini is a master of language. It is his joy and his passion. He loves to play with words and enjoys puns. So, when he is seriously interested in someone, he will use this passion for words to impress and seduce you.
He will write you beautifully composed poetry. This poetry will be composed making clever use of rhyme and meter. If he is musically inclined, he will write you love songs.
8. He will not debate or argue with you
Sometimes it is hard to tell whether someone likes you as “just a friend” or whether they have a serious romantic interest in you. With a Gemini man, however, there is a very clear sign, especially as the relationship progresses.
This relates to how he interacts with you. A Gemini man not only likes words, but he likes ideas. He collects a little bit of information about everything, and it is rare to find a subject that he can not have an intelligent conversation about.
Sometimes this leads to conversations that are quite heated. A Gemini man enjoys a good debate. He likes to show his knowledge of various issues and is quite happy to change sides in order to keep the conversation going.
Yet, he really only does that with those he considers friends. If he is attracted to you, he may debate with you early in the relationship. Later on, however, as the relationship becomes more serious, he will become more diplomatic, and less inclined to debate. He will begin to avoid conflict with you at all costs.
9. He will take the initiative
A Gemini man is generally quite easy-going. He takes each moment at a time, and he generally just accepts whatever comes his way. As a general rule, he tends to go along with whatever someone else would like to do.
Yet, when he is seriously attracted to someone, he will start to become much more assertive. He will plan dates and outings. He will think about various ways to impress you.
A Gemini man in love can come up with many different and creative ways to spend time with you. He will not want to do the same thing twice, and each date will be a new adventure.
10. He will be monogamous
A Gemini man can have some trouble with monogamous relationships. He is easily bored, and he enjoys the company of many different people. Many light, casual contacts are more comfortable to him than a deep, personal intimate relationship with one person. This is just a part of his nature.
Despite this, monogamy is possible for a Gemini man if he finds the right person. The right person for him is one that is interesting and entertaining.
11. He will have deep, serious discussions with you
While a Gemini man is a lot of fun, it can sometimes seem like he is a bit shallow. He flits from subject to subject in a conversation like a small bird flitting from branch to branch on a tree. It can be tempting to think that he is not capable of deep thinking.
This is far from the case, however. Gemini is ruled by Mercury, and Gemini natives are generally quite intelligent. He does think about things, and he often has very well-developed ideas about many serious subjects. He just does not take the time to talk about them with most people.
On the other hand, if he is seriously attracted to you, he will share his insights and will be interested in yours. He will have deep discussions with you about deep subjects such as philosophy and religion.
12. He will want to travel with you
Even though a Gemini man loves to talk, he is not all talk. He does enjoy going out and doing things as well. One of the things that he enjoys doing is traveling. Yet, he does not travel with just anyone. Most of the time, he would prefer to go out on his own so he can be free to go and do whatever he feels inclined to do at the moment.
Yet, if he is seriously attracted to you, he will want you to be with him on his travels. He will want to share his experiences with you and want you to be his companion on the journey.